Gibbering moron wrote:To be perfectly honest i think girl's and boy's can both be mature and immature, boy's generally get worse in a gang but in fairness as do girls. Boy's tend to get awkward talking about certain matters, but in fairness certain girl's i know get awkward too. Girl's tend to talk about each other more, but with boy's you get stupid comments, including racist from some.( Not all just a few more men than girls i know ). Also boy's can be very vain towards other people, ( i know girls can to, ) but generally if a girl isn't considered as 'hot' and 'fit' they don't want to know. In alot of cases they don't even speak to them.
Not all boy's and girl's are like that, but i find many are where i live.
You don't have to be so worried about people arguing with you. I agree with you when I take away the brackets.
I believe that gangs are worrying to people of the same gender. Their about equal in terms of which is worse. For a girl, I'd be more worried about going past a gang of girls, their more likely to start something. But guys, unless they are you know the worst kind of guys, are more likely to just yell. Wheras if I was male and I walked past girls it would be reversed,
Girls are more bitchy, let's get that out of the way. I'm a girl and let me tell you, when a lot of girls say "I won't tell anyone" they mean "I won't tell anyone except...", whether this is everyone or just someone else they always gossip to- it still is a big flaw. Because that person will have someone they gossip to and it'll go round in a circle.
Like, in Graphics I get the more gritty stories from the guys, then it gets back to the girls. So girls are worse with maturity when it comes to gossiping and bitching. I think that girls are in general more verbally vicious, I agree that more guys are racist, but in my expieriance they are a lot less vocal. You can know loads of guys for months before you realise they are racist or homaphobic or whatever.
I personally believe that guys are more honest when it comes to what they like in someone. Girls like to say "I like someone with personality" and yeah we are normally less shallow than guys and the way we like people is influenced less by looks. But if someone really ugly and badly dressed and presented walks in girls won't be any more inclined to chat to them or think "I'm sure he/ she has a nice personality". Guys are more honest in that they admit they like girls to look good. But when it comes to friends guys care less about how their friends look than girls.
So really they are more mature in different ways. I do think though that girls have to stop kidding themselves that they look for personality. Your first impression is looks and your going to be more inclined to talk to someone who looks nice.